I just found out I'm pregnant with our second baby and I'm extatic, BUT, I cant handle my husband anymore...?

by wallyg

He has been wrapped up in this ACN bussiness for months now and he puts it infront of everything! He’s never home he works a few hours a week at a restaurant so we have a barely there set income but the rest of the time and I mean 80+ hours a week hes doing this ACN thing non stop there’s a meeting everynight so he’s leaving as I get out of work, Saturday mornings, then he works at night and Sunday was our day together but that stopped because the pastor at the brazilian church came in under him and now he goes there to cell stuff, its not in english plus I’m catholic so i go to another church. Now in the morning he wants to go to the flea market with person under him to sell the stuff at there tables. Now its halloween and I just wanted to take our 3 year old trick or treating together (with my two best friends and their kids), then have pizza at their Dad’s, then stop at my mom’s and tell my parents the big news. (he was aware of this for weeks!) but I just called and was like make sure you go home and get dressed right away so I can swing buy grab some stuff and we can go (trick or treating starts at 5 here) and he was like well do I really have to go, Are you sure, even if it means were loosing money? I’m agrivated I mean this is a big time for us and I just want to be together.

He does make ok money like $ 1000 a week because he’s ETL, but at some point its all going to go away I mean these pyramid things dont last forever! and I’m going to be home with two kids and I dont know where we’ll be!

I’m so stressed just thinking about it! I just want him to see the bussiness for what it is and do something that will better him self more, Like a training school or something! But he thinks this program is the only way, he really believes what all these people in the bussiness are telling him and I’m going crazy!

I feel like a single mom but I am not supposed to be, I just hung up on him when he said he didnt want to go, because maybe I’m just emotional preggers but i was seriously about to cry! but now if I say no you need to come with us, I will have it thrown in my face for months to come about how I screwed up and stoppped his bussiness!

any advise?

Answer by Xiao Xiong
You mentioned he has a pastor (the pastor of the Brazilian church), so have you considered going to him for marriage counseling? Your husband clearly has lost his focus in marriage, there are a buttload of scriptures about meeting the emotional needs of your wife and of course about not making money your God. But you should let your husband hear those things from his pastor.

Answer by jm
….. ill go with you …….

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Answer by Cookie Monster eats Yahoo!
thanks for the ideas

Answer by Welcome to the Crack Shack
I take it your not bored

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i LOOOVVVEEE it.!!! ima do sum of these thinqs. =)

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Those are funny things to do…but im not going to do that

Answer by Nicola
I’ll pretend that I’ve read all of those LOL.
Thanks anyway.

= )

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